Meal Planning for A Healthy Weight

The beauty of this system is you will be eating every 2 1/2 hours from the time you get up until bed!  To keep your metabolism running at optimum speed and to keep a steady blood sugar, plan 6 meals roughly the same size and evenly spaced throughout the day.  Personally I eat breakfast at 7am, a morning snack at 9:30am, lunch at noon, afternoon snack at 2:30 or 3pm, dinner at 5pm or 5:30 pm, and an evening snack around 7:30.

On a 1200 calorie diet, each meal is roughly 200 calories. On a 1800 calorie diet each meal is around 300 calories. Sometimes I move 100 calories around here and there. For example, I may reduce a snack by 100 calories so I can have a bigger lunch or dinner. Think about the time of day you are hungriest and plan your food accordingly. I am famished in the afternoon, but not as hungry for dinner. So my afternoon snack is my largest meal of the day.

Weight loss is based on calories burned vs. calories taken in, so if you keep your consumed calories under what you burn, you will lose weight, regardless of the types of foods you eat. But eventually making poor nutrition choices will catch up to you. If your body becomes depleted enough it will send the starvation signal to your brain, your metabolism will slow and you will start to gain weight even on a low calorie diet.

  

This is why I encourage friends to include ample sources of lean protein into their weight loss plans. Your body absolutely cannot create protein and if it is needed for cellular repair and not available nutritionally, your body will use its own lean muscle mass to harvest the protein it needs. If you take in too much protein your body can use it as an energy source. It takes more calories, water and calcium to digest protein than it does to digest carbohydrates. So taking in extra protein results in less weight gain than taking in excess carbohydrates. On the other hand, If your body gets too few carbohydrates it can take the energy it needs from the fat in your body!  

Since I recommend an ample supply of protein during weight loss, I also encourage you take in plenty of water and calcium (in the form of green veggies or a supplement) to keep a proper balance in the body.

There are certain vitamins that only come in fat.  These include vitamins A, E, D and K and Omega Fatty Acids.  I include small amounts of healthy sources of fat in my diet, such as egg yolks, nuts, salmon, butter and olive oil to provide ample sources for these vitamins.  Since I am pregnant I also take an Omega fish oil supplement just to make sure.

Carbs aren’t completely taboo, but I like to get most of my carbs from fruit and vegetables.  They are high in vitamins and fiber but low in calories.  I supplement these sources of energy with a few whole grains for a balanced nutrition.  When I reach my weight goal, the only change I need to make to my meal plan is to add a few more servings of whole grains for proper weight maintenance.

In each of my meals I include at least 2 different types of food.  For example I may have a protein and vegetable such as a Salmon filet with steamed green beans, or a fruit and a fat such as an apple with peanut butter.   I plan my meals separately from the rest of my super lean and fit family, but usually what I eat is some form of what they do.  For example if the family is having tacos on whole wheat taco shells, I eat a taco salad, skip the shell completely and reduce the amount of cheese.

I could go on forever talking about this….but we have all month :).  To help you with your meal planning I have two FREE downloads for you.  The first is a No Calorie Counting guide to meal planning for weight loss.  In this guide I recommend servings sizes and types of food and how many from each category for the day. There is also a huge long list of free foods and an interesting paragraph on calorie free or negative calorie foods.   Depending on your choices this plan will build a 1200-1460 calorie diet for you.  There is also a handy check list at the end to print for each week.  When you eat something check it off and you’ll be able to see at a glance what you have left to eat.

To download right click and save to your computer: Non Calorie Counting way to weight loss

The second download is a weekly meal planning guide divided into 6 small meals (or you may choose 5 slightly bigger meals).  In this guide write specific amounts in each day such as 1 cup of skim milk (80) and 3/4 cup of bran flakes (96) in the breakfast column.  If you are counting calories, write the calorie total for each meal cumulatively in the right hand column.  I also like to write the individual food calories in paranthesis next to the food in the menu section as shown above.  This helps me memorize the calories and serving sizes of the foods I eat most often.  If you are using the non counting method, leave this column blank.

To download your menu planning sheet right click and save to your computer:  Fit and Fabulous Meal Plan Sheet

Tomorrow we’ll discuss one easy but important thing you can do to keep yourself from failing in your quest for fitness.

Tomorrow

Preparing for the New Year: Day 5

Day 5:  Financial

We’re almost there!  Today I’d like for you to think about your financial goals for the future.  Are you working towards being debt free?  Are you trying to pay off your house, invest for retirement, or you children’s education?  Saving for a large purchase?  Whatever your goals are, write them down and be specific.  What is it going to take to reach this goal?  How soon can you get there?  What can you do to make it happen faster? 

If you aren’t already doing these things also consider starting one of these new habits this year:

1.  Write a new budget every month!  Writing a monthly budget allows you to change it for your specific needs of the month, it also makes you look at it at least once a month and keep it fresh in your mind.  If you are used to writing a budget in one sitting for the whole year, consider the monthly budget instead.

2.  Use a cash envelope system.  You will spend 20% less than when using a credit card or debit card.  And you’ll see in an instant when you are close to your budget limit–because your money will be gone!

3.  Promise yourself to never borrow another dime again!  Once you are out of debt, put that lifestyle behind you forever.  Paying interest on money to avoid waiting until you can afford it, is like burning money that you won’t earn until later.  I’ve done it, but never again.

February this blog is dedicated to helping you shrink your basic living expenses one day at a time.  This will free up extra cash to help you reach your financial goals this year. 

Enjoy your New Year’s Eve!  I’ll meet you here tomorrow to start working on our fitness goals for 2011 together.

Preparing for the New Year: Day 3

Wednesday:  Professional

Most women have more than one profession to think about today which can soon become totally overwhelming!  To help, brainstorm a list of things you would like to improve then simplify it down to just a few things.  It’s okay to set a goal that will start at a later date too.  Spread out your projects through the year so you will not become overloaded.

  Homemaking:  While this could include a limitless number of things, I’ve simplified it into 3 areas.

Cleanliness and organization

Meal preparation, nutrition, and presentation

Decorating and atmosphere

2.  Homeschool: 

Spiritual training

Electives such as Music, Art, Home Ec, Shop

Core Subjects:

Scheduling:

Grading and record keeping :

Managing toddlers and preschool activities:

3.  Outside Job:  Do you have an outside job or home-based business?  This is your year to make it great!

Revise business plan and goals

Update record keeping including tax records

Write a new business budget

Write a daily schedule and decide what hours you will work on your business

Hint:  With my growing family, homeschool and other responsibilities, I am revising my business plans to make them more automated and self-regulating so I can spend more time with the most important people in my life.   If you are thinking about starting a home-based business consider the amount of time you have to devote to it.  Is it possible to get paid for doing things that you are already doing?

 

 

Merry Christmas from the Coffmans!

I had some lovely posts planned for you the second half of the week, but we have been so busy baking and shopping and wrapping and cleaning and being sick that it will have to wait.  So please join me on Monday for some thought provoking posts, recipes, and organizational ideas to get us ready for the New Year!

Baby Boy Names?

If you have a lot of children you are going to laugh at me, but I’m having a hard time deciding on a name for our baby boy. We’ve already named 3 boys with our favorite names and our list has run out.

There are so many nice names that we can’t use because we have a large family and a large circle of friends that have taken dibs. So Seth, Sean, Isaac, Jacob, John, Peter, Paul, and pretty much anything starting with J aren’t available.

I’ve made it a matter of prayer and will continue to do so. I’m sure the Lord will answer when the time is right. But it will feel so nice to have something to call our cuddly little bundle while we wait to meet him.  And in the mean time it’s fun to look at names.

Here’s a list of some that Darren and I can agree on, though none of them really grab us. Do you have any opinions? The last name is Coffman if that helps you hear the music of it. How about pairings of first and middle names?

And here’s a couple of photo of what all our babies pretty much look like, though these are Brandon.  They are generally big and fat (around 9 lbs) with loads of dark hair and poochy lips, lol.  I really like our babies.  Though the sono tech says this one is smallish so far.  That would be a unusual and since I’m pretty sure on our dates I’m hoping that they were a little off on their measurements and that everything is okay with baby. 

Possible baby Names

Garrett: German: Strength of the spear

Matthew: Hebrew: Gift from God

Andrew: Greek: Manly

Hugh: German: Intellect

Jeremiah: Hebrew: God will set free

Keith: Scottish: Forest

Gregory: Greek: Watchful, vigilant

Thaddeus: Aramic: Praised Greek: God’s Gift

Curtis: English: Courteous

Beaumont: French: lovely hill

Gabriel: Hebrew: God is my might

Gideon: Strong warrior

Grant: French: Great Tall

Jared: Hebrew: Descendant

Kraig: Gaelic Cliff Rock

Kyle: Gaelic: Straight of water

Milton: English: Settlement by the middle town (My dad’s middle name.)

Belly Bands for Maternity: Are they worth the money?

I’ll be 23 weeks pregnant tomorrow and haven’t talked about my pregnancy much.  I thought I’d remedy that with a review on maternity belly bands.  I have purchased the products mentioned in this review myself and have not been contacted by any company to promote their products, so what you read here is my unbiased opinion and personal experience.

Product Image BeBand Maternity Band Ebony

This is a stock photo from Target.com

Normally this is an item I would make myself instead of paying $16.99-$35.00 for a simple tube of fabric.  But while I have felt my healthiest this pregnancy, I have also felt my most overwhelmed.  Trying to juggle 3 businesses while still homeschooling, preparing our home to list,  and caring for my family has just about snowed me under and I haven’t touched my sewing machine (except to make an emergency Christmas program costume at the very last minute) in months. 

About 16 weeks pregnant, I could no longer wear my pre-pregnancy pants, and my maternity pants looked clownishly large on me (even though the labels said they were the same size.) I had purchased regular jeans one size larger at the thrift store on half price day fully expecting to cut off the tops and add maternity panels (following the tutorials here.)  But honestly I can’t tell you when I will be able to do it.   So they were laying useless in the bottom of my drawer. 

In desperation I plunked down the $16.99 at Target for a black Bebelly Band made by Bella.  I bought the smallest size (I was prepregnancy a size 6.)   To be completely honet, I felt guilty about the cost all the way home., though it is the lowest price band on the market.

My first impression of the band was less than complementary, but I was mad at myself for buying it instead of making it and was looking for a reason to take it back.  There is no tag, and the brand and size etc is screen printed on the inside.  This makes the fabric stretch weird at that spot and at first glance looks like it might have runs in it.  It does not though and it holds up great with repeated washings.  The fabric is a nylon lycra blend, like swimsuit fabric but with a matt finish instead of shiny.  Almost like a dry-fit type of fabric.  It is very light and very stretchy, with good recovery and good support. 

Can I make it myself?  Yes and no.  On close inspection of the band I realized I could not make it myself.  The band is completely seamless with no elastic but is knitted specially at the top and the bottom to make it hold well and not slip.  It is pure genious and I’m so relieved that I can stop feeling guilty for not making it myself.   It held up my too big maternity pants like a pro, and gave support to my back at the same time.  As a bonus the slight compression also helped me retain less water throughout the day.  Somestimes I would wear it just for the support even when I didn’t need it to hold up my pants.  Now if I just wanted it to cover my belly for shorter shirts or nursing and not hold up my pants, I could have totally made it myself in about 5 minutes from some cotton/lycra knit for less than $5.  But I’m convinced that a cotton band would not effectively hold up my pants.  I’d love to hear your experience with them since I haven’t tried it.   (To make a belly cover myself, I would sew a tube a fabric about 18 inches tall and about 2″ smaller than my hips with a stretch stitched hem.)  For more on making one yourself skip to the last paragraph.

Does the pressre cause nausea?  There were times that the band became uncomfortable and upset my stomach, I either removed it or folded it down under my belly to relieve the pressure. 

I still wear my band often even though my maternity pants fit great now.  I even went back and bought a second band in the light khaki/nude color.  This works a lot beter under my lighter colored tops and with my khaki pants and is nearly invisible.  I’d love to have a white one too, but haven’t justified the cost yet.

Do they work to hold up unzipped jeans?  Just recently, I pulled out my thrift store jeans waiting a transformation and slipped them on completely unzipped and pulled the belly band over.  I was amazed how comfortable it was.  The belly band smoothed out the bumps from the open jeans and even under tighter shirts was undetectable.  I was surprised how comfortable it was.  I didn’t feel the zipper in my skin or pressure from the buttons.  And the fabric gave with me as I moved and breathed without slipping.

So are belly bands worth it?  I think so.  I highly recommend the BeBelly bands from Target for their quality price and effectiveness.  I’ve heard lots mixed reviews about some of the other brands but havn’t tried them to speak to their effectiveness. 

Even though the Target price is the lowest I’ve found for the seamless nylon/lycra bands, I totally get that some of you can’t spend that much right now.  I think you could make one that is almost as good yourself if you choose your fabric carefully.  The higher the lycra content the more effective it will be.    Also using 2″ wide hems will help the band not to roll at the edges and give you more support without elastic.  One fabric that looks promising is this Dryflex High performance knit that is 90% poly 10% spandex and only $7 a yard.

Meet A Sponsor: Heidi for Lilla Rose

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A Last Minute Gift Just for You

This candy bouquet gift idea comes from Lorrie Look’s 3rd grade Handmaiden class.  It’s so easy all the girls made one for their mothers and they turned out so cute!

Here’s what you’ll need:

1 plastic cup

beans, rice or sand for weight

1 piece of festive tissue

1 styrofoam block 2″ square

Decorative paper shreds

assorted individually wrapped candies

toothpicks and hot glue

1.  Pour some weighting material into the bottom of the cup, just enough to keep it from tipping.

2.  Wrap the cup in tissue.

3. Stick the styrofoam block into the tissue wrapped cup and top with some paper shreds.

4.  Use a hot glue gun to attach the toothpicks to the candy and stick them in the foam in an attractive arrangement.  Then get someone cute to present it for you.

For Renee: How to Take a Super Frugal Cruise

Cruising is my favorite way to travel, because next to camping, it is the least expensive way!  When you cruise, you see a new country or several cities in the United States on a travelling resort.  You unpack once and sleep in the same place each night.  Your food, lodging and entertainment is included in the same price and you never wonder if you will be able to find a vacancy.  Often the 3rd and 4th persons in a room get a significant discount ($100 off) so taking children with you can be affordable too.  The downside is rooms only hold 4, so for a family like ours, we have to bring help if we want all our children to come.

So how frugal is a super frugal cruise?  We are taking a 6 day, 5 night cruise to the Caribbean for $250 for the first and second persons in the room and $150 for the 3rd and 4th persons in the room.  So essentially the adults were $250 each and the children were $150.  This includes all our food, lodging and entertainment on the trip.  Gas to the port, one night stay in a hotel and gratuities will be extra.  We could have purchased the trip for $229 and $129 per person, but I thought about it for 2 days and the price went up!

My dad is the king of finding super frugal cruises!  He taught me 5 basic rules to taking a frugal cruise:

1.  Drive to the port.  Depending on how far away you live, driving usually is the same price as 1 airline ticket.  So if you have 2 in the car, the travel is half price. We look for cruises that port in New Orleans or Galveston, TX since they are each about 14 hours away to drive–doable in one day.  This time we are packing 7 people in our car, so we are saving a bundle on airfare.

2.  Don’t drink alcohol.  You can have plenty of fun without alcohol.  Non-alcoholic drinks (like water and soda) are usually complementary on a cruise, but alcohol costs extra–a LOT extra.  Did you know that gram for gram alcohol has nearly as many calories as pure fat?  Instead of your wine cooler, imagine a glass of chicken fat.  Gross huh?  And when alcohol is involved someone usually ends up looking like a fool.

3.  Don’t gamble.  The ships are full of casinos, but they also have movie theaters, dance floors, rock climbing walls, roller skating rinks, ice cream machines, hot tubs, pools, water slides, ice skating rinks, mini-golf,  aerobics classes, live production shows, dancing lessons, napkin folding classes, crafts, sports contests, basketball, indoor gym equipment, a library, art gallery, pool table, ping pong, a walking trail etc.   Everything except the casino is 100% complementary entertainment.   

4.  Book inside passage.  This basically means that your room won’t have a balcony or windows.  If you want to see the ocean, there are plenty of observation decks that you don’t need to pay extra for.  And inside rooms come with all the same free entertainment, luxurious food, and room steward services as other more expensive rooms.   We have always cruised inside passage and always had a fantastic time.

5.  Book your cruise at the right time.  Prices on cruise ships fluctuate outrageously.  One day the ticket may be $750 and in a couple of weeks the price may fall to $250!  So watch and wait.  Don’t have your heart set on a certain cruise line, or departure date.  Be a little flexible and you’ll find a great deal.  Our favorite place to look for the deals is www.Vacationstogo.com (no affiliation.)  You have to be ready to buy immediately when you find your deal, because the price won’t stay that low for more than 1 day.  So start looking when you have your cash all saved up.

6.  And here’s  another great money saving tip from my Uncle:  Bruce wrote: “Another good tip is to stay the night before at a motel that will allow you free parking while you’re on the curise. It adds the cost of a taxi ride, but it’s still cheaper than the port parking.”

Other costs to keep in mind:  If you are leaving the country you will need a current passport.  These can cost around $100 a person so be sure to figure that in to the price of your vacation.  Children can usually travel with their parents with just an original copy of their birth certificate, so be sure to ask about that ahead of time.  You will be responsible for tips on your cruise which are about $10 per person per day.  You normally pay tips to your room steward, head waiter and assistant waiter.  These tips are in addition to your cruise price.

Excursions:  These are trips that you can take at port when you go on land.  You can book these ahead with your cruise line.  It is a lot more expensive to take these trips this way.  Often you can find the same excursion at point of purchase for less money.  The benefit of booking through the cruise is that you are guaranteed to make it back to your ship on time.  (If your ship leaves without you, you are in an expensive mess!  You’ll either have to find your own way home or pay to get yourself to the next port to board the ship there.  The ship leaves when it says it will.  It won’t wait for you unless a ship sponsored excursion reports in late.)  Also, if you are travelling to South America, your safety is more sure on a ship sponsored excursion. Also, popular excursions can fill up.  If you book early through the cruise, you are guaranteed a place. I plan to walk around and enjoy the city this time, without booking an excursion.  But I have done it both ways in the past (booked through the cruise, or waited and booked when I got off the ship.)

Restaurants:  If you are in port during meal times, you have the option to go back on the ship to eat.  This food is part of your ticket price and doesn’t cost extra.  You can also choose to eat on land in a restaurant to save the walk back to the ship and maximize your time in port.  You’ll want to bring extra cash (or international credit/debit card) for this.  Most places that host American ports also take American currency.  Also, there are lots of places to eat on a cruise ship.  Most of them are free, but some of them cost extra.  Find out ahead of time where you can eat for free (the food is fantastic there! and will be available on the ship somewhere 24 hours a day.)

Most cruises have a formal dining room which is optional but complementary.  This is a 5 star dining experience where the waitor puts your napkin in your lap for you and brushes the crumbs off the table in between courses.  One or two nights on your cruise (depending on how long your stay is) will be formal nights–black tie apparel.   It’s a fun time to dress to the nines and get your picture taken.  (Purchasing photos costs extra-$20-$30 a sheet, but having them taken is free.)  Other nights, formal dining is church attire–no jeans or shorts.  If you need or want to purchase formal wear be sure to plan this into your trip cost.  We have a blast shopping at thrift stores for our special occasion dresses, and our men usually wear a black suit that they already own.

I love formal dining, because I get to know several members of the staff very well.  They are usually international, speak in several languages, and have lovely stories to tell.  On the last formal night, the staff will put on a singing show that is a blast.  I usually cry after the last formal dining experience, becuase I know I will never see these dear friends again, but I wouldn’t miss it for the world.

So that’s all I can think of about cruising.  Anyone have something to add?  P.S.  I look longlingly at the spa, but do those types of things at home.  I have a sister-in-law who is a massage therapist and a great friend who is a spa technichian, so I’d rather support them at affordable prices, than pay through the nose on a cruise ship.

P.P.S  Most people spend enough too much on their groceries to buy a cruise ticket every month!