5 Ways to Stay Motivated

Starting a weight loss program can be wonderfully exciting at the beginning.  The first week many people lose as much as 5 lbs!  But soon after that the weight loss slows down; weekend gatherings or outings with friends make us feel left out or sabotage our efforts.  It doesn’t take long before we feel like quitting.  So how do we stay motivated?

1.  Weigh on your schedule.  I like to weigh every day.  If I don’t my weight loss suffers and my emotional fortitude does too.  Others like to weigh only once a week.  Weigh when it works for you, but do it at the same time of the day with the same clothing (or no clothing) each time.  Seeing results will keep you working.

2.  Plan treats into your menu.  There are lots of low-calorie sweets available.  Sugar free gelatin (the health conscience can make their own with pureed frozen strawberries, stevia and plain gelatin), 1 oz of dark chocolate, meringue cookies or angel food cake–are just some examples.  If you have a sweet tooth, give yourself permission to indulge once in awhile.

3.  Plan a reward for yourself when you reach small goals.  For example, you might put a dollar into a new clothing fund envelope each time you weigh less than you did the time before–or when you make the time to exercise.  Make sure your rewards are something that you really enjoy but don’ t involve food.

4.  Take before, during and after pictures.  Taking before pictures are never fun, but when you get close to your goal you will be glad you did.  Try wearing the same outfit in each picture and use a plain wall for a background so you can really see the changes that all your hard work brings.

5.  Have a motivational outfit or destination.  I once bought a tiny sundress for a couple of dollars of a clearance rack because I loved it even though it didn’t fit.  Just looking at it made me make better choices.  I also knew a gal who hung a cute bikini on her wall just because looking at it motivated her.  Or if clothes don’t float your boat, what about a destination motivation?  It could be huge by going on a cruise, or small like planning an outing at a favorite local park or lake.

I’m sure there are lots more ways to stay motviated.  What do you do?

Measuring Food for Success

Measuring my food has been the change in my fitness routine that has made the biggest difference.  Before measuring I was completely off on my portion sizes and when I stopped measuring for awhile, my portions slowly got larger and larger.  Without measuring, my food journal is a guess at best and can’t accurately show my nutrition or calorie intake.

Simple kitchen measuring cups and spoons will work, but if you are really serious about weight loss, you need a digital scale.  You can get one from ebay for only $7-$10 shipped.  I use mine for postage also, so I purchased a scale that would go up to 5 lbs.  For food alone, a 2 lb scale is fine.  Make sure your scale measures in both ounces and grams, is accurate to .1 and has a tare button.  It can be really small, I’ll show you why in a bit.

When using measuring cups and spoons, make sure they are leveled off and the food is not packed down.  It’s easy to hide extra calories in a measuring cup by smooshing or piling the food on.  I’ve done it lots of times, but when my weight plateaus there’s nothing to blame but myself.  Measuring cups are better than not measuring at all, and I still use them from time to time.  If you don’t have a digital scale yet, use them until you can get one. 

A small scale is not a problem.  You can make the platform bigger if you put your empty plate, bowl, or skillet on the scale and hit the “tare” button.  The scale should read “0” again.  Then slowly add one ingredient at a time, checking weight with each addition.  Hit tare after each ingredient addition and the scale will go back to zero allowing you to measure each ingredient separately.

What About PrePackaged Foods?

Convenient and easy to figure nutrition facts, prepackaged foods can seem a dieter’s friend.  But I recently learned from reading CalorieKing that the weight on the package is a minimum only.  Often the packages hold more food than they say they do which means they have more calories too.  It’s a good idea to meausure your snacks without the wrapper on your digital scale and adjust the serving size if necessary.

It’s even better to prepare your own food at home and package it up for convenience.  You get better ingredients, nutrition, and complete control over the serving size.

Keeping a Food Journal for Success

A food journal is 2 things.  First it’s a record of everything you put in your mouth–even if you licked the brownie batter spoon.  Knowing we will have to write it down often stops us from making a poor food choice.  Having a record of what we eat also helps us if we reach a plateau.  We can look back on our choices and see if they are the reason why our weight loss has stopped.  Our food journal shows us when we reach our calorie limits for the day and helps us spread our allotment out evenly through the day.  I once started a fitness plan and consumed my daily allotment by lunch!  That was one miserable afternoon.  Now with a menu plan and a food journal, I never have to live that again.

Second, it’s a record of how you feel during the weight loss process.  If you are angry about missing some of your favorite unhealthy foods, write it down.  If you are hungry and discouraged, write it down.  If you have more energy and feel really great about the postivie choices you are making, write it town too.  Somehow letting it out on paper, helps us keep going and be nicer to our family while we do it.

If you are also making a menu plan from the download in yesterday’s post, this can be part of your food journal.  Simply check off when you eat a food on the menu and write in any additional foods to the side or on the back.  When I food journal, I like to write specific amounts of the foods I eat and the calories in them.  But I’m one of those weirdos that enjoys counting calories.  I also record the time of day I ate it, but that is totally optional.  If I do any exercise or particularly strenuous chore, I write that down too with the amount of time spent on it. 

Choose whatever you like for your journal.  A simple spiral notebook is perfect.  Right now my journal is on the computer at Babyfit.  I love that I can look up the amounts and types of foods and add them to my journal and they keep track of all the calories and nutrition for me!  I can also input any foods that aren’t on their list and save them in a private list of my favorites. If you aren’t expecting a baby, you can get a similar online food journal for free at Sparkpeople.  

While we are on vacation, I won’t have internet access and with all the tempting food choices around me it will be more important than ever to keep a food journal.  I have a small spiral notebook ready to go and am shopping for a pocket calorie guide to take with me.  Do you have a book to recommend?

Update:  I found the book I’m going to take with me.  I was really interested in Calorie King but decided not to buy it in the end, because it didn’t have protein information in it.  I ended up purchasing this snappy little number instead: You can click the photo to find out more and look inside at Amazon.

Meal Planning for A Healthy Weight

The beauty of this system is you will be eating every 2 1/2 hours from the time you get up until bed!  To keep your metabolism running at optimum speed and to keep a steady blood sugar, plan 6 meals roughly the same size and evenly spaced throughout the day.  Personally I eat breakfast at 7am, a morning snack at 9:30am, lunch at noon, afternoon snack at 2:30 or 3pm, dinner at 5pm or 5:30 pm, and an evening snack around 7:30.

On a 1200 calorie diet, each meal is roughly 200 calories. On a 1800 calorie diet each meal is around 300 calories. Sometimes I move 100 calories around here and there. For example, I may reduce a snack by 100 calories so I can have a bigger lunch or dinner. Think about the time of day you are hungriest and plan your food accordingly. I am famished in the afternoon, but not as hungry for dinner. So my afternoon snack is my largest meal of the day.

Weight loss is based on calories burned vs. calories taken in, so if you keep your consumed calories under what you burn, you will lose weight, regardless of the types of foods you eat. But eventually making poor nutrition choices will catch up to you. If your body becomes depleted enough it will send the starvation signal to your brain, your metabolism will slow and you will start to gain weight even on a low calorie diet.

  

This is why I encourage friends to include ample sources of lean protein into their weight loss plans. Your body absolutely cannot create protein and if it is needed for cellular repair and not available nutritionally, your body will use its own lean muscle mass to harvest the protein it needs. If you take in too much protein your body can use it as an energy source. It takes more calories, water and calcium to digest protein than it does to digest carbohydrates. So taking in extra protein results in less weight gain than taking in excess carbohydrates. On the other hand, If your body gets too few carbohydrates it can take the energy it needs from the fat in your body!  

Since I recommend an ample supply of protein during weight loss, I also encourage you take in plenty of water and calcium (in the form of green veggies or a supplement) to keep a proper balance in the body.

There are certain vitamins that only come in fat.  These include vitamins A, E, D and K and Omega Fatty Acids.  I include small amounts of healthy sources of fat in my diet, such as egg yolks, nuts, salmon, butter and olive oil to provide ample sources for these vitamins.  Since I am pregnant I also take an Omega fish oil supplement just to make sure.

Carbs aren’t completely taboo, but I like to get most of my carbs from fruit and vegetables.  They are high in vitamins and fiber but low in calories.  I supplement these sources of energy with a few whole grains for a balanced nutrition.  When I reach my weight goal, the only change I need to make to my meal plan is to add a few more servings of whole grains for proper weight maintenance.

In each of my meals I include at least 2 different types of food.  For example I may have a protein and vegetable such as a Salmon filet with steamed green beans, or a fruit and a fat such as an apple with peanut butter.   I plan my meals separately from the rest of my super lean and fit family, but usually what I eat is some form of what they do.  For example if the family is having tacos on whole wheat taco shells, I eat a taco salad, skip the shell completely and reduce the amount of cheese.

I could go on forever talking about this….but we have all month :).  To help you with your meal planning I have two FREE downloads for you.  The first is a No Calorie Counting guide to meal planning for weight loss.  In this guide I recommend servings sizes and types of food and how many from each category for the day. There is also a huge long list of free foods and an interesting paragraph on calorie free or negative calorie foods.   Depending on your choices this plan will build a 1200-1460 calorie diet for you.  There is also a handy check list at the end to print for each week.  When you eat something check it off and you’ll be able to see at a glance what you have left to eat.

To download right click and save to your computer: Non Calorie Counting way to weight loss

The second download is a weekly meal planning guide divided into 6 small meals (or you may choose 5 slightly bigger meals).  In this guide write specific amounts in each day such as 1 cup of skim milk (80) and 3/4 cup of bran flakes (96) in the breakfast column.  If you are counting calories, write the calorie total for each meal cumulatively in the right hand column.  I also like to write the individual food calories in paranthesis next to the food in the menu section as shown above.  This helps me memorize the calories and serving sizes of the foods I eat most often.  If you are using the non counting method, leave this column blank.

To download your menu planning sheet right click and save to your computer:  Fit and Fabulous Meal Plan Sheet

Tomorrow we’ll discuss one easy but important thing you can do to keep yourself from failing in your quest for fitness.

Tomorrow

Happy New Year 2011!

I hope you had a lovely evening and a good rest and are ready to work :).  Today I’ll show you the basic math of weight loss.  It’s so easy a child can figure it out and there’s only 5 numbers to remember.

1.  Your weight goal.  Healthy weight varies within a 15 pound window for a group of women the same age and same height.  The lower-mid-point for finding weight is to give yourself 100 lbs for being 5 feet tall and adding 5 lbs for every inch over 5 feet tall you are.  So a woman who is 5’6″ should weigh around 130 lbs.  At 130 pounds she’ll look great in a bikini though she may choose not to wear one.  But at 140 pounds she’ll be on the high end of healthy and still feel great.  If she is very small boned and has a super fast metabolism, she might find her ideal weight closer to 125.  These weight ranges all consider a healthy balance of muscle in the body.  It is possible to be at a healthy weight and still be overfat with too little muscle.    If you’d like more help figuring a healthy weight range, try this site.

2.  A pound of fat is worth 3,500 calories.  To lose a pound of fat you need to use 3,500 more calories than you eat.  If you want to lose a pound a week, you’ll need to create a 500 calorie deficit every day.  If you’d like to lose *2 pounds a week, then you need a 1,000 calorie daily deficit.

 3. Basal metabolic rate (BMR):  This is the number of calories you would burn if you stayed in bed all day.  You don’t want to eat fewer calories than your basal metabolic rate when dieting unless you are under the control of your doctor**.  It’s easy to find out what your BMR is, just click over to this site and plug in your numbers.

4.  Daily calorie needs:  This is the amount of calories you would need to maintain your weight at your current activity level.  It’s basically the number of calories you are eating each day right now.  Once you know your BMR, your daily calorie need is easy to figure out based on the Harris Benedict Scale. 

If you are sedentary (little or no exercise) : Multiply your BMR x 1.2

If you are lightly active (light exercise/sports 1-3 days/week) : Multiply your BMR x 1.375

If you are moderatetely active (moderate exercise/sports 3-5 days/week) : Multiply your BMR x 1.55

If you are very active (hard exercise/sports 6-7 days a week) : Multiply your BMR x 1.725

If you are extra active (very hard exercise/sports & physical job or 2x training) : Multiply your  BMR x 1.9

5.  Fat loss calorie level: To find out how many calories you can eat a day and lose a pound of fat a week, take the number you found in step 4 and subtract 500.  To find out how many calories a day to lose *2 pounds of fat a week, subtract 1,000 calories a day.  Make sure these numbers don’t fall below your BMR.  If they do, you will have to create the additional calorie defecit through exercise.

If you have those 5 numbers you’ve done great today! Write them down in a small notebook that you can use to keep track of your progress.  We’ll come back and re-figure the numbers after we’ve lost 10 pounds.  That will make sure our weight loss progress continues.  All fat loss comes from a calorie consumption/use relationship, but if  you hate counting calories I will show you some ways  to get the same results without all the numbers.

Monday we’ll talk about how to use this information to make a delicious meal plan that will keep you eating nutritious food all day long.  And Tuesday we’ll discuss ways to stay motivated.

*Losing more than 2 pounds a week through calorie restriction alone after the first 2 weeks of a new fitness plan without the constant oversight of a doctor is not recommended.  The first 2 weeks additional weight loss can be attributed to excess water weight loss or toxin weight loss and is normal.

**Consuming too few calories can result in lowered metabolism, nutrient deficiencies, and heart problems and should not be undertaken without the close supervision of a physician.

Preparing for the New Year: Day 5

Day 5:  Financial

We’re almost there!  Today I’d like for you to think about your financial goals for the future.  Are you working towards being debt free?  Are you trying to pay off your house, invest for retirement, or you children’s education?  Saving for a large purchase?  Whatever your goals are, write them down and be specific.  What is it going to take to reach this goal?  How soon can you get there?  What can you do to make it happen faster? 

If you aren’t already doing these things also consider starting one of these new habits this year:

1.  Write a new budget every month!  Writing a monthly budget allows you to change it for your specific needs of the month, it also makes you look at it at least once a month and keep it fresh in your mind.  If you are used to writing a budget in one sitting for the whole year, consider the monthly budget instead.

2.  Use a cash envelope system.  You will spend 20% less than when using a credit card or debit card.  And you’ll see in an instant when you are close to your budget limit–because your money will be gone!

3.  Promise yourself to never borrow another dime again!  Once you are out of debt, put that lifestyle behind you forever.  Paying interest on money to avoid waiting until you can afford it, is like burning money that you won’t earn until later.  I’ve done it, but never again.

February this blog is dedicated to helping you shrink your basic living expenses one day at a time.  This will free up extra cash to help you reach your financial goals this year. 

Enjoy your New Year’s Eve!  I’ll meet you here tomorrow to start working on our fitness goals for 2011 together.

Preparing for the New Year: Day 4

Thursday:  Physcial

Weight loss and fitness goals are the #1 resolution every year!  It’s also a billion dollar industry. 

I’m no stranger to this one and I’d like to make better choices this year.  Even though I’m pregnant and won’t be losing weight for 3-4 months, I can still make positive eating and exercise choices for my growing baby and me. 

Only a few of you know the life-long struggle I’ve had with weight, how I conquered childhood obesity at the age of 12, and recovered back to my prepregnancy weight after each of my 5 deliveries even though I gained 30-80 pounds.  Through struggle comes education!

The month of January I have dedicated the blog to telling you everything I know about losing weight, planning a healthy diet, and building muscle.  It’s going to be fantastic and 100% free!   Make your goals now, but save your money until February.  After I’ve told you all I know and you still feel the need for a gadget, supplement, or weight loss system, I’ll let you do it :).

Be specific on your goals.  Don’t just say “I want to lose weight.”  How much?  By When?  If you want to eat healthier what does that mean?  Be speicific and write it down.  If you’re not sure how to get there right now, that’s okay.  I’ll walk you through it one day at a time.  And if you’re tired of weight management menu’s that cost a fortune to prepare and taste too exotic to eat, or expensive exercise equipment, rest assured you’ll get none of that here!

Physical Resolutions might Include:

-weight loss

-strength building

-establishing an exercise habit

-a new hairstyle or beauty regime

-cutting back on sugar, soda, coffee, chocolate, or other bad habit

-keeping a food diary

-eating more veggies and fresh fruit

-learning a new sport or hobby

– establishing a family activity night

-keeping better sleeping hours

-lightening your schedule to remove stress and create more relaxed family time

 

 

Preparing for the New Year: Day 3

Wednesday:  Professional

Most women have more than one profession to think about today which can soon become totally overwhelming!  To help, brainstorm a list of things you would like to improve then simplify it down to just a few things.  It’s okay to set a goal that will start at a later date too.  Spread out your projects through the year so you will not become overloaded.

  Homemaking:  While this could include a limitless number of things, I’ve simplified it into 3 areas.

Cleanliness and organization

Meal preparation, nutrition, and presentation

Decorating and atmosphere

2.  Homeschool: 

Spiritual training

Electives such as Music, Art, Home Ec, Shop

Core Subjects:

Scheduling:

Grading and record keeping :

Managing toddlers and preschool activities:

3.  Outside Job:  Do you have an outside job or home-based business?  This is your year to make it great!

Revise business plan and goals

Update record keeping including tax records

Write a new business budget

Write a daily schedule and decide what hours you will work on your business

Hint:  With my growing family, homeschool and other responsibilities, I am revising my business plans to make them more automated and self-regulating so I can spend more time with the most important people in my life.   If you are thinking about starting a home-based business consider the amount of time you have to devote to it.  Is it possible to get paid for doing things that you are already doing?

 

 

Preparing for the New Year: Day 2

Tuesday: Relationships

 

This is a fun one.  I am thinking about how I would like to tell my friends and family I love and appreciate them this year.  Part of that for me is getting a birthday calendar together and buying all my cards for the year, stamping and filing them ready to send on time.  I will also stock sympathy, get well, wedding and baby cards so I’m never left unprepared again.  This can get expensive, but I’ve found a good selection of $.50 cards at various stores around town and I’ll be snagging the best of those.  If you or your children enjoy making cards, go for it!   For more articles on creating a greeting card file try here and here.

I’m also thinking about my children and how I’d like to be more engaged with them this year.  One of the best ways to curb rebellion and dishonesty is to have a strong relationship with my children.  We are together all day, but my mind is often far away.  I want to change that.

I’m grateful that my husband and I get to have a date twice a month, since we trade babysitting with DHs cousins.  But I  am thinking of other ways I can let him know that I appreciate him and how to encourage him.  I think I will start by packing his lunch again (I’ve fallen out of that habit lately.)  Then I can slip a note in now and then or a special treat just for him.

I’m also thinking about my grandma who lives in a nursing home.  It is hard for us to get out, but I want to make a new routine to visit her frequently.

I’d love to hear your ideas for building closer relationships this year!

Preparing for the New Year: Day 1

I love new beginnings!  And I am determined to take full advantage of this one.  Would you like to join me?  We will be setting goals and making plans in 5 steps, each day addressing a different area of life.  Here’s a brief overview for the week:

Monday:  Spiritual

Tuesday:  Relationships

Wednesday:  Professional

Thursday:  Physical

Friday:  Financial

Each day you are going to need a spiral notebook and a 2011 calendar.  For Monday I will also need my scriptures, a purse size spiral notebook (for my new prayer journal), and a hymn book.

Monday:  Spiritual

 

Today is the day I deeply consider my relationship with Jesus Christ and how I will deepen and broaden it over the year.  I will set goals for daily scripture study, prepare a new prayer journal, and develop a plan for what I will teach my children in our daily devotions this year.  I will also write a calendar of prayers to pray for my husband as the spiritual leader and head of our home and make a list of 12 books that I will read, one a month.  I hope to memorize a weekly scripture with my children and learn all the verses to one hymn a month.  I will choose these today also, as having a plan is half the battle to executing it.

Although my goals will be specific, they will be small.  Anything that I do will be an improvement over last year!  And I realize that if I reach too high I will become discouraged and not change anything at all.